The thing is there is an assumption that small business owners are desperate to re-open and employees are desperate to go back to work, but that is not entirely true. If you own a nail salon and re-open but half your employees and 75% of your customers don't come back, you are going to be in even worse trouble than you are now. If you are Gold's Gym or Supercuts maybe that's not the case but I sure wouldn't want to be one of their employees. And if we open up and then go back into shelter-in-place in six weeks things would be even worse (economically and emotionally).
In Texas they want to let all retail business reopen for pick-up. I don't think that helps anyone. The business won't be great and it just puts more people on the streets. I can't even think of a retail business right now that isn't already open that I would need to visit. Craft stores, sporting goods, record stores, chocolate shop, hardware - all open for pickup where I live. Not sure we need to tell the world, "it's cool, start going shopping every day instead of once a week" just yet.
The May 1 timing is surely not a coincidence. The real money and power in this country lies with banks and commercial real estate as well as corporations. The political pressure to "reopen" is not so your neighborhood dry-cleaner or barber can get back to work (or so we can get get clean clothes and haircuts), it's so landlords and banks and credit cards can start getting paid again as soon as possible. This is especially true in states where the party in power does not believe in social safety nets.
There isn't a state in the union that isn't currently putting a ton of energy into a plan for getting the economy back open. Different states just have very different plans, and perspectives on what's safe. But the virus won't respect that.
Obviously people are going to need to start going to their doctors. I don't see how you do hair salons or barbershops with anything other than one staffer and one customer at a time. That staffer is then taking on nearly all the risk, exposing him or herself to 10 or 12 people a day, but that's still better than if there are 2 or 3 people working and seeing customers.
There's no chance of summer camps. Most are already going to have to make the decision not to do it either for safety/liability reasons or because they know nobody is going to come, even if the whole country proclaims itself open for business tomorrow.