I attended the entire Cup run of my second-favorite team (the Stars) and was in Dallas the night they won it (in Buffalo) and let me tell you, it's still not the same. Also the case in 2020.
Also hard for me to see this particular period of incompetence as the dealbreaker when there have been so many others. (I know a few people who loved Lindros more than the Flyers,for instance and never came back.)
But really I just don't follow hockey as closely when the Flyers are bad. When they're in the playoffs regularly I don't stop watching after they lose, but when they are barely in the mix I end up being disconnected from the whole league. I was at that crazy Penguins playoff game in 2012 which was ultimately meaningless (they folded in the next round) but probably the high point of every season since 2009-2010.
And yet - you can't really blame Fletcher for trying to run it back with the COVID season team. You can for everything he's done since it didn't work. And the entire regime change was a botch as usual.