I have known for 2 years we were going to hit this milestone. My wife died that day, been 10 years, I am ok, she was very sick and it was a relief of her pain, but despite the Phils win in the 10th, really not a good day.
If it makes you feel any better, she hated the Phillies (or at least my spending time on them), she was from Louisiana and couldn't understand why anyone could watch Baseball. It is still odd to me that New Orleans does not have an MLB team, it is the one major city in the US that stands out as having a fairly large area with no ML Teams (Houston is somewhat close, but not really).
Funny day for me, I am actually smiling when I think of her, so I guess it is "healed"